Creating A Life Worth Living, Part 1
Shoulda, woulda, coulda -- those words had been the essence of my life and so many other people s lives, too. Now I ve learned that life really isn t about those words at all, and it isn t about easy. Instead, each of our lives is about will and won t and do and don t, and the rewards that come from taking charge of our lives. Our lives are up to us, as individuals. We are the ones in charge, whether we take that responsibility or not. So the question is, are we going to live a life by accident, a life by default, or will we have a plan, a path, a purpose. Will we end up where we want to be by intent or nowhere by accident. Will we blame others and external forces for the place we are in, or will we take charge and define by choice who we are, where we are going, and what we are doing. The choice belongs to each of us. While my life interiors have often been a mishmash of uncoordinated elements, I have finally found my style and created a life of comfort...